A woman born with two vaginas has revealed the disgusting behavior she faces on dating apps.
Annie Charlotte, 26, discovered she had uterine didelphis when she was 16.
The uterus develops as two ducts which generally combine to form a single uterus. However, in those with this condition, the ducts do not join and two uteruses develop. In some cases, two cervixes and two vaginal canals can also be created.
Theoretically, this means that she can become pregnant in both reproductive systems at the same time.
But Charlotte has revealed there has been a sad side to opening up about her condition.
“Now I’m on a lot of dating apps and people will be like ‘you’re the daughter of two p****s,'” she told news.com.au.
She said she gets a lot of questions and it often becomes clear. The men ask if she “had two at the same time.” When she says she didn’t, the men quickly offer to “fix it.”
She rarely questions who she is as a person, Charlotte said.
She recalled one specific encounter with a high-profile man she had dated. She said things had gone well. Then, after a few drinks, he would come with his friend.
“The next minute, he said he thought he and his husband ‘wanted to be tunnel buddies in separate vaginas,'” Annie recalls.
Charlotte felt as if she had thought it through and repeated the speech. Annie turned around. Eventually, she went along with the idea. However, circumstances at the time prevented the man’s goal from happening.
On another occasion, she had a man go out on a date with his friend. She was stunned and asked what was going on.
“He said, ‘Well, two vaginas so I thought two boys would be appropriate,'” Annie said.
She couldn’t believe what was happening. She felt that the element of “humanity” and “respect” was missing.
Charlotte added that no matter what kind of work she did, she should be able to go on a date without being a tick box.
“With work, it’s so easy to be like ‘it’s just a job.’ But with my dating life, I’m more than just my two vaginas,” she said.
She said that sex was an important part of the relationship. But now she feels like people don’t want to know her. Instead, it feels like a box to tick.
“It makes me feel like shit. People are only seeing me as a sex object,” she said.
Charlotte said she was “venting” and that she is currently out of apps. But she is asking to meet.
She said she would like someone to hit on her at the gym as it is “the only place she will meet men”.
She added that she did not know what a “common theme” it was for two men – especially friends – to perform a sexual act with a woman at the same time.
When Charlotte was younger, she said she wasn’t open to having two vaginas and told people individually.
She said many people had reached out to thank her. Her honesty, they said, gave them a point of reference to bring up their concerns about their genitalia with friends.
It’s something she wouldn’t change for the world.
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